I’m deeply saddened to tell you that Pam Dunn passed away on December 26th. I’m sure you recognize her magnificent smile. And hopefully you’ve enjoyed the wonderful energy, intelligence, and caring of Pam and her partner, Ria Cousineau, and their amazing children, Cary, currently on the BU18 team, and Casey, currently on a GU14 team. Our legacy on this earth won’t be measured by what we have accomplished or accumulated, but by what we pass on to future generations. Pam’s legacy will grace this earth and make this world a better place.
I loved Pam for her selfless giving to our Special Olympics teams and because she knew that seeing and supporting Cary and Casey play and excel at soccer was more important than victory in the courtroom or in closed session. And she gave generously to see that economically disadvantaged kids had the same opportunities to be at LAFC as her kids did. I loved her humanity and compassion.
Below you’ll see a full article that appeared in the Met News that talks more about Pam’s professional life.
Pam’s memorial will be on Sat Jan 24th at 4 p.m. at Southwestern School of Law in Los Angeles. Details of scholarships being set up in Pam’s name are pending. We’ll supply details when they are available.
Don Sheppard
Trustee Pamela Dunn
By SHERRI M. OKAMOTO, Staff Writer
Services are pending for Pasadena appellate attorney and Los Angeles County Bar Association Board of Trustees member Pamela Dunn, who unexpectedly passed away Friday at the age of 59.
She is survived by her partner, Maria “Ria” Cousineau of Sedgwick Detert Moran & Arnold, their son Cary, and their daughter Casey.
A scholarship fund is being set up in Dunn’s name, Cousineau said, and the arrangements for memorial services should be finalized today.
Cousineau said the event will likely take place in January at Southwestern. The two met while students at the school over 25 years ago.
Dunn had battled lupus for several years, and her heart apparently failed due to complications from the disease, Cousineau said.
LACBA President Danette Meyers said that the organization was “stunned” by Dunn’s death, adding that “the good truly do die young, they truly do.”
Meyers said she had known Dunn for over 18 years, and that she had expected Dunn to eventually become LACBA president.
“I cannot comprehend the fact that she’s not with us,” Meyers said, recalling that less that two weeks ago she had walked with Dunn to their cars after a meeting talking about the upcoming holidays.
“The Board is planning on doing something,” Meyers pledged. “What we’re going to do, I’m not quite sure, but I guarantee you there will be something.”
Dunn belonged to several professional organizations, including the Federal Bar Association, the American Bar Association, Women Lawyers of Los Angeles, California Women Lawyers, Lawyers for Human Rights, and the Association of Southern California Defense Counsel.
She served as chair of the California State Bar Appellate Courts Committee, and LACBA’s Appellate Courts Committee. She also served as an adjunct associate professor of law at Loyola Law School and Southwestern.
Additionally, Dunn established LACBA’s AIDS Service Project and assisted this district’s Court of Appeal in establishing its Settlement Conference and Mediation Program.
Robin Meadow of Greines Martin worked with Dunn training mediators as part of the appellate court mediator program. He remembered Dunn as “someone who would pretty much light up a room when she came in.”
Meadow says “it was always fun to do stuff with her, not just because she knew her stuff…but because she just always seemed to be having a good time.”
Dunn earned her law degree from Southwestern University, and her undergraduate degree from the University of South Florida.
Mary Newcombe, an appellate court attorney with this district’s Court of Appeal, Div. Seven, said that she “just hit it off” with Dunn after they met as young, second-career attorneys active in gay rights advocacy in the mid 1980s.
Dunn was once a music critic for a newspaper in Florida and a teacher before coming to California and pursuing law, Newcombe said.
As an advocate, Newcombe praised Dunn as “one of the superb practitioners in this state,” who “was always really prepared for argument…knew her judges, knew how to talk to them about the case law, [and] knew how to present a case in its best light.”
Sole practitioner Daniel J. Koes, Dunn’s former law partner, called Dunn his “mentor.”
He said: “She taught me how to read a record, research difficult issues, draft a winning brief, how to argue…she taught me everything.”
Koes met Dunn while she was working at Robie & Matthai P.C., and joined the firm as well. The two later established their own partnership, Dunn Koes LLP.
“We called Houston’s our firm’s cafeteria,” he recalled, based on how frequently they dined there. “That was our special thing.”
Before she joined Robie & Matthai, Dunn was with Greines, Martin, Stein & Richland LLP. Feris M.Greenberger remembers her friend and former colleague was “a wonderful story teller” and “such a cheerleader for our profession.”
Greenberger recalls her friend loved iced tea “with extra lemon,” unblended scotch, fountain pens and starched white shirts.
Koes also said Dunn was “all about the iced tea,” with “like, the entire lemon” on the side.
But above all else, Cousineau opined, Dunn “loved her children and was prouder of her children than anything else in the world,” adding that her partner, who “was never for a loss of words,” “had a heart of gold” and “put herself second, always.”
Copyright 2008, Metropolitan News Company
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Our prayers are with Ria, Cary and Casey — Sent with love from our BU10, BU11 Teams and all the current and former LAFC families whose lives that Pam touched. — Charles, Claudia, Kelsey and Nikolas
Pam, you’ll be missed by all of us whose lives you touched. All of us from the LAFC Special Olympics/TOPs program love you Ria, Casey and Cary and our prayers are with each of you.
Ria, I am very sorry for your loss. Your love for Pam will live forever and her love for you will always be seen in your smile and the love you bestow upon your children.
May God bless you and your family-
Marco and Melissa
Ria, Casey and Cary we are sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
From all of us LAFC BU14 White
Ria, Cary and Casey i am truly sorry for your loss. The LAFC GU12 Black team have you in their thoughts, hearts and prayers.
Ria…so saddened to hear the news, I wish I was going to be in town to attend the service for you, even tho I did not know Pam I can tell she was a wonderful person deserving of all these accolades.
Please know that I will be there in spirit holding you up. Love you and I will be sending prayers for you and Cary and Casey and of course to Pam up above.
Christie Wise (Fordo)
Ria, Cary, and Casey,
We are terribly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Cal State San Marcos Soccer
Dearest friends.
While nothing can fill this void right now, your wonderful words, meals, hugs, and unending support help heal the holes in our hearts. They say time heals these wounds. I don’t believe it for a moment. But the love of friends and family make it easier to live with them.
Thank you all.
Ria, Cary & Casey Cousineau
Ria, there is a group of us who knew and loved “Snakie” from Plant High School days in Tampa. We would like to contribute to her memorial. Please send me info on how to do this and I will coordinate.
My heartfelt compassion is with you and Cary and Casey,
Blessed be,
Lu Anne Winslow Schwarz
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